Wednesday, 10 October 2012

Parental Tips


In today’s world there are many parents who are looking for the best parenting tips. However, when parents look out for guidance they rely on school first. In Sapphire International you will find the best parenting advice. Here are few parental advices that you should know about mentoring children.
First, no matter how busy are you for the world you need to show love and compassion even if your kid goes wrong at any point. Whenever you get a chance praise your ward as it helps in boosting up his/her moral. It silently builds self-confidence.  This is the way you will gradually teach them discipline of life.
Second, need to discipline children. When they do something wrong, parents/teachers need to get down onto their level to make them understand. Kids won’t do well at first go. If you have set any warning you need to stick with it so that the kids don’t take you for granted. Even still they do things wrong repeatedly you need to discipline them by your set criteria and show them the boundaries. If parents, become lenient with the set boundary level they will naturally keep pushing on your limits.
Best advice any counselor or any institution would give is that you need control and handle your anger. Many parents act very badly in front of their children in personal and with their children. Give a pause to yourself take deep breath whenever such situation pops up and with calm nature confront your child. You need to approach kid in positive and understanding manner. When these things are done in proper manner, you will automatically see changes and things will become a lot easier to deal with.
Find some quality time for your child this way you will also relax and your child will feel supported, this way it helps to reduce stress and pressure from our child. You and your spouse need to make sure that you’re on the same platform so as to understand the child and make him understand.  This is not hard to do, but it demands time. These are the basic golden rule but many parents fail to do this because of all other things weighing down on them, they find that handling children problems can be pretty hard to deal with. All such things clashes and end result you tend to hurt the kid or themselves. Parents need to keep setting up examples of healthy living rather putting it in words.
Ms. Karishma

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